Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Happy New Year!


2009 is upon us so I thought I should take a moment to reflect back on 2008 and the highlights for me and my family.

I think as I grow older I will look back on 2008 as "my year"...why you ask? Well, I think finally I found myself and I became 100% comfortable in my own skin. I sought out solutions and they made me a stronger person for myself, my family and hopefully my friends. In some respects I could call this my "ah ha" year and I am grateful.

2008 was the turning point for my career I was given the green light in February to start moving forward with new ideas at work which have lead to a more enriching a fulfilling work life. I am not going to say it hasn't been hard but at least I am secure in my job and enjoying what I am doing.

2008 has been a big year for the kids, Lauren is a big first grader learning and speaking Spanish daily and growing before my eyes. This year it has become clear that he next 10 to 11 year before she goes off to college are going to go by in a flash, so I am trying to enjoy them and her infectious smile as much as I can each day. Jackson has become quite the young man, he is my old soul child, wise beyond his years and his words of wisdom makes me smile each an everyday.

2008 has been a big year for Dan, first he had many surgeries to repair the beating that the Army has provided his body over the last 20 years and we believe that he is on the mend. However 2008 will be remembered as the year that Dan retired from the military after 20 years of service. I am so proud of him and his accomplishments, he tends to downplay the good things that he does and I for one like to be his cheerleader and remind him of how wonderful he is as a solider, father and husband.

2008 brought household change for me, I have always worked outside the home and relied on Daycare specifically a daycare center for my children, to me it felt more reliable and stable. After many ups and down in the au pair/daycare world I decided to make the jump to in home care which would allow for my children to be home in the summer as well as allow them to have play dates and other great fun instead of being in daycare. I must say I wish I had made the move long ago. I was able to find a preschool for Jackson which I adore and the kids really couldn't be happier. As a matter of fact just yesterday Jackson asked when Ms Celia (know to some of you as Rosa) was coming back. That tells me that he is fond of her or that she is not as strict as I am and he wants her back :) LOL

2008 also brought me the love of writing and a place to release my thoughts and talk to those who have like interests and those that don't. Blogging has been a sort of therapy for me and each of you have played a roll in that and for that I thank you for the bottom of my heart!

In 2008 I decided it was time to get back in shape, so in January I set out on the journey that most do that time of year and I am a happy to say I stuck with it and lost 25lbs. Then on a bit of a challenge I set a goal of running my first ever 10K (6.2 miles). I did that in Oct and I then did 2 more times turning in my best time of the year in my last race. Who knows the years ahead may hold a marathon for me!

Yes, 2008 has been a great year.....so is it possible for 2009 to be better...in a word YES! There are big things coming in 2009 I can feel it. For those of you that have ever had the opportunity to see rolling thunder here in DC on Memorial Day weekend you will relate to the this...2009 feels to me as though I can hear it roaring just like the roar of the motorcycles before they take off for their rolling thunder ride. There is a certain rumbling in my life right now and it all feels good and I look forward to sharing it with all of you over the coming year!

Happy New Year may 2009 be your best year ever!

***Don’t forget to enter my Giveaway you have till Friday at midnight eastern!

Monday, December 29, 2008

Merry Christmas!

We've finally figured out how to divide up Christmas! Christmas Eve and early Christmas morning with my family, and the rest of Christmas Day with Adam's. Then we get to go to both families and get all Peterson traditions in :) Here's how our weekend went. We got off work after 1:00 pm on Christmas Eve and hurried home to shower, pack our stuff, and go over to my parent's house for Christmas Eve dinner. After dinner, we went with my whole family to see the lights at Temple Square. I don't know why the temple is green....
Then we went back to my mom and dad's to hang out and spend the night. The sleeping part was a little tricky, with a small bed and two LARGE people :) We were woken up by the kids and opened presents. Adam got a Rotozip and router table to use in his woodshop, and a fly-tying book so he can learn some new fly-fishing flies. I got new cowgirl boots, a cute dress, and an OLD Nintendo Adam found in his parents basement that I've wanted forever! Best Christmas Ever!
This was a sibling gift exchange for us. We love this flag and have already hung it up at home :)
Here's Mom and Dad, opening presents. She can't wait to watch Mama Mia!

My brother Brant and his cute girlfriend, Shelene opening presents.

Here's Cristl, very pregnant, and very much missing her hubby who's in Iraq. To make her feel less isolated, I put our brother-in-law, Phil, in the pic with her :)

Here's sister Chantel with her kiddos, Baby Brynlee, McKayla, and Parker. Favorite presents? Parker loved his "spinny" things and McKayla love her sparkly presents.

After presents, we got ready and spent an our shoveling ourselves out of the driveway at my parent's (10 inches!!) and finally got out and on our way, running a little late :) The roads were bad until we got to 90th south and then it was dry, like another world! The breakfast casserole at Adam's Aunt Tracy's was great, and we hung out there until it was time to go up to Adam's grandparent's house for dinner. Here's me and my mother-in-law, not moving after we've eaten too much.
Awwww, such a cute couple :)
After dinner, we went back to Mom and Dad's to play games with everyone. We stayed until 11 and got ready to leave, our car packed full of presents! It was so windy, but we only had to drive 5 minutes.....or so we thought. The road to Suncrest was a white-out and after about 35 seconds, we found ourselves suddenly stuck in a snowdrift! Couldn't even see it! After trying to get out, I called my dad to come rescue us. Adam made me stay in the car, it was so cold and windy, while him and my dad tried to see and get us out. There is no tow hook on my car, so they finally got down in the snow and hooked it to my axle. Then I started freaking out because I had to steer while my dad pulled me backwards out of the snow and I could see out of my windows. Luckily, I rolled down the window an inch and Adam guided me (took a lot of trust). We got out of the drift, but as I pulled around to drive back to my parents house for the night, the wind pushed me into a snowdrift! Serious! So, Adam tried to push as I rocked the car, yelled at it a lot, and finally got through. I slowly drove the block to my family, didn't dare park in the driveway all of the way, but as I pulled in just enough to get out of the street, it started sliding towards my sister's van. I screamed out my now open window "I can't stop!" so my dad and Adam pushed the sliding car into a pile of snow before it hit the van. Finally, we were to shelter without any extra clothes or undies. Adam was freezing, standing in the wet snow blowing like crazy for 1 1/2 hours so we got him dry and went to bed around two. The next morning was another "shovel for an hour to get our car out" morning but we REALLY wanted to get home and shower. Oh, we need to get new tires after having to spin them to get out of the snow, and somehow the E-brake cable broke when my dad was pulling us out. But luckily, that's all! Wow, that's a long post and I'm exhausted just re-living it!

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Giveaway!!!!

It's Giveaway time!!!!

Really, it's I screwed up and you benefit time! LOL
I bought these games thinking they worked in our PS2 wrong!!! So you get to benefit. If you have a Portable Playstation or know someone who does then this is the giveaway for you.

Way to win!
1) Leave me a comment as to why you would like these games and you will be entered for the drawing.
2) If you leave a comment and post about this on your blog I will give you 2 entries.
3) And if you tell your friends and they come to leave a comment and let me know in that comment that you referred them you will get an entry for each comment referral!
Drawing Ends on January 2nd at 12am eastern time.

Here is the Prize! 2 PSP games One is Scooby Doo and the other is Hot Wheels
Good Luck!

Saturday, December 27, 2008

Christmas Wrap up...and a giveaway!

I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas, I know we did. The kids are still on their Christmas high and I have finally relaxed to the point that I have slept in till 8 am almost every day since I have been off. Although that is going to come back and bite me when it is time to go back to work January 5th!

Here are a few pictures form our Holiday some are of my mom with the kids. Mom came over for Christmas Eve. Then on Christmas Day we opened presents and hung out in our PJ's all day as a family finally about 4pm we got ready for Christmas dinner at our dear friends house.


Brother Sister Love

Lauren and her favortite gift, notice who she is singing to

Dinner with the Andahazy's


Dinner at my house with my mom



My mom and the kids

All in all a great holiday! So how was yours??

Giveaway Announcement!!!
I will host a giveaway this week!!!! I have 2 Playstation Portable games to give away, so if your children have a PSP check back soon!

Friday, December 26, 2008

JASON MRAZ- I'M YOURS

song that i like so much!!! favourite aku sorang ni nk buat concert kt Malaysia tp aku nk laaa PEGI SGT2 tau...

arrrgggghhhhhhhh....nk pegi, nk pegi, nk pegi!!!!





PRESENTS FROM HUBBY!!!

Finally,selama yang aku dok think...think...think dh pun terbongkar!!! aku dapat perfume BVLGARI OMNIA AMETHYSTE from hubby. i like the smell cozz x kuat sgt bau sbb aku tak suka sgt bau perfume yg terlalu kuat sbb nanti aku gerenti sakit kepala la so bvlgari ni bau dia just nice and i love it!! 





so thanks hubby coz u gave me this great present... really appreciate sgt2!!!

all done...chowwww....

CAMERA HILANG!!!!ARGGGHHHHHHHHHH.....


 SAKITNYE HATIKU BILA CAMERA LAKIKU HILANG!!!! AKU PUN X TAU LA APE PUNYE SUWEYY LA. 

sebab camera hilang aku kena marah ngan lakiku kaw2 la. sampaikan handfon pun kena tarik balik,dia kata nanti aku hilangkn fon tu lak!!! arrrggggghhhhhhhhhhhhh... mmg sakit hati+otak semua la sakit! bukan murah nyer camera dh la mahal,grrrr grrrrr....



so now hanya tinggal kenangan je la!!! abis semua picture yg aku amik hilang!!! sumpah kalau org yg jumpa camera aku tu mmg aku x halalkan.... I MEAN IT!!!


ok lah chowwww...

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

new year.new life.

happy new year.
semoga tahun yang akan menjelang tidak lama lagi akan lebih mematangkan & memajukan diri saya.
amin.
2.0.0.9

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Leapin' Lizards!!!!

Ok so for you long time readers you know I had an au pair several years back. At the time it seemed like a great idea, the cost was equal to what I was paying in daycare and the thought of having a young lady from another country who could become an extended part of our family seemed intriguing, plus there was, what I thought at, the time bonus factor of having someone who lives there. Our first Au pair Ok, it was our first time and we learned a bit with her. Our second one not great we had to send her packing after 2 weeks because she was totally unable to drive. Our third a total mooch who cared more about partying like and American girl and finding a sugar daddy then about my kids. We sent her packing after 5 months. It was ugly, we basically got tot he point we couldn't trust her and we needed to strike fast. We informed her (we did talk with the program counselor first) that we were going to rematch (let her go) and explained that the events of the prior weekend were the final straw.

So that was Sept 2008, we have not heard from her once since then. No I'm sorry for the way I acted, or thanks for all you did for me (digital camera, trips with us etc.) and no communication with the kids. This bothered me the most because I couldn't understand how you could spend 5 months with these kids and not want to check in to see how they are doing.

So fast forward to last night, (yeah you know what's coming but keep reading anyway!!!) I pull in the driveway, I notice there is a strange car with NC plates across the street from my house, ehh the neighbors must have friends over I thought to myself. I walk in the garage door, head up the stairs and I hear voices, Hmm one of the neighbors must be over I think. I turn the corner and there she was! Fernanda the au pair we sent packing 15 months ago has returned from Brazil and she is not alone her sister who is an au pair now in NC is with her. She reaches out smiling to give me a hug, I am in shock I am sure my face looked like this!
My husband then hands me a drink which I thought was diet coke, no that would be rum and coke!!!!...I knew I loved this man. Dan ushers us into the family room, where we have chit chat, I am sure my mouth is still hanging wide open. She is here in my house acting as though all is fine like she left under wonderful terms (trust me it was bad).

The kids really weren't sure who she was and they are nice enough to her but not like they were with Abby when she came to visit in Oct. We wrapped up our visit and she says to me I am sorry for the way things ended, I have missed not hearing from you or the children. I will say I felt for her, however living with her for 5 months I knew something was up. She kept looking at me like she wanted to say more but I think she could tell I wasn't buying it. As she walked out the door she said she hoped to be back to visit soon because she now has a 5 year visa.

I have a number of theory's as to why she appeared but I will take the high road (until proven wrong) and say she came by in the spirit of Christmas and was genuine in her apology.
here is a picture of all of us as well as one with her and the kids.


Thoughts???
BTW even while typing this I am still stunned that she showed up totally unannounced, from Brazil no less!

Sunday, December 21, 2008

Don't forget the Box Tops!

So it's that time of year again ....It's time to line our tables with food and happiness to share with our family and friends, As the Box Tops coordinator for my child's school, I feel it is my duty to remind you as you pause at the shelves of your local grocery store or as my neighbor says "Food Hole" look for products that bare the Box Top symbol on them! Why you ask? Well, for each one of those logos you collect, your son or daughters school will receive 10 cents to use towards buying educational supplies for their school. Our school was able to collect enough Box tops that we received a check which allowed us to purchase a smart board for one of our class rooms. These smart boards cost near $2500 a piece.

To make collection fun the Box Tops website has all kinds of neat seasonal collection projects. So in the spirit of giving purchase form Box top products and cut out the logos for your school. I even have the Grandparents and some of my coworkers involved.

Lastly Don't forget about the Marketplace, when you go to the Box Tops website click on the Marketplace tab and you will find a ton of online merchants that will give anywhere from 1% to 5% of your purchase tot he school of your choice.


Happy Holiday's !!!!!

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Bah humbug


So every night this week I have had some sort of evening commitment, be it personal or work (mostly work), I have not run since Sunday’s race and I feel crappy because I am eating at all these events. I have a ton of wrapping to do and I still have not found the perfect gift for my husband! Over all the season has taken me over and not in a good way.

2 days ago I came home about 7pm (mind you I left the house that morning at 6am)only to find he house in total and I mean total disarray. I can’t stand to walk into the house after a long day and find it a mess. It makes me crazy. I am one of these people believes that everything has a place. My babysitter is great about getting things picked up and put together before I come home, my hubby on the other hand…… not so much.

I had hoped that the mess I saw was only in the basement which I could deal with, but no the mess continued to the kitchen and up the bedrooms. So of course I was stomping around putting things away, Dan asks “what’s the deal”, I explode! I think it’s a combination of the pressure of the holidays, the work load I am carrying and truthfully a bit of jealousy that hubby is home for the next month until he starts his new job. However since he is home I would think that things would be a bit more put together. I don’t think I have ever had him come home and the house is totally destroyed. I know I am whining I am just tired. My husband is a great guy and he tries very hard to please me. I feel bad that I acted the way I did a couple of nights ago. I know this time of year is supposed to be fun and joyous but as I get older it seems to lose a little of that every year.

So I am hanging on by a thread if I can make it to the 23rd I will have a full 12 days to just be with the family and hopefully relax a bit.

Are you feeling the pressure of the season? If so how do you cope with it?

I promise to be in a better mood in my next post!

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Blogs ...comments and how to get them


Ok I have been doing this blog thing for over a year and I love my readers but I have hit a wall, I am not sure how to get over that wall. What is the wall you might ask. Well it is a bit narcissistic in nature I want to know how I can get more readers. Readers = comments and comments drive me even more to write. Sad huh? So I want to know what your secrets are for gaining readership? Do you drop by others blogs and leave comments?? Do you advertise on other blogs?? Giveways??? Tell me what your secrets are I need to know because as I was once told I am a comment whore!

Monday, December 15, 2008

WEDDING OF THE YEAR??????????????????

 SAD BUT TRUE!!!!

why am i saying like that??? it's because there's one incident yg baru2 ni je berlaku yg boleh aku kata wedding yg x jadik wedding. bukannye aku x suka si dit dot(bukan nama sebenar) ni nk khwin,aku suka sbb ye larr nk mendirikn "masjid" mesti la everybody happy!!! but at the same time da whole family cam curious skit bila si dit dot(bukan nama sebenar) ni nk khwin.


ok lahhh senang citer si minah ni nk kata lawa xde la lawa klu tgk GHOPENYE(rupenye) yg seperti monster ni mmg  korang xkn percaya si minah nk khwin,dgn perangai yg buruk rupenye yg buruk segalanye buruk(cukup package utk buat org cabut lari nk dekat ngan minah ni) membuatkn kitorang semua x suka sgt ngan si minah ni.  so jejaka yg dikatakn ingin mengahwini si minah ni pulak hanya utk mempermainkn si minah ni(ye larr rupekn buruk),just utk jdi tukang kikis duit si minah ni sbbnye si minah ni mmg la suka memberi wang ringgit kepada si boyprennye!! tu la dia pompuan senang sgt nk jual maruah smpai sanggup abiskn duit utk si jantan. 


nk dijadikan cerita si minah ni patutnye bernikah pd hari sabtu tghari klu x silap tp telah ditunda ke hari jumaat lepas org semua smbahyang jumaat!!! makanye setelah tiba harinye tp x tiba2 gak pd hari yg sepatutnye bernikah rasanye hari jumaat selepas smbahyang jumaat aku mndapt message yg mengatakn hari nikah nye ditunda pd hari sabtu malam lak. so dgn senangnye jari aku membalas message dgn mengatakn,"ni dh 2 kali x jadi lepas ni gerenti x jadik terus nikahnye"...


yang si pengantin lelaki ni pulak katanye accident masuk ICU tp bila cri di merata hosptal still gak x jumpa da groom(ni bukan la aku yg pi cri jantan tu tp org kampung)!!! finally rupe2nye si groom ni dh ada kt labuan for 2 months. dh nmpak sgt si groom ni x nk khwin ngan si minah ni sbb klu dia khwin dh gerenti si groom ni kena tanggung si minah yg makan byk dan pemalas dan buruk dan gile mcm monster dan lain2 lg.....


untuk meneruskn citer ni,lg sekali aku dpt call yg mengatakn xde langsung hari pernikahan sbbnye org kampung cuba selidik hal ni pd pak imam yg pd masa yg sama pun masuk hospital(x tau la sakit ape aku x amik tau),pak imam kata segala surat2 nikah xde langsung kt tangan dia,dh jdik kecoh 1 kampung hal ni!!! disebabkn segala preparation dh pun dibuat maka si minah yg nk khwin ni nk gak meneruskn majlis khwin dia(mesti korang yg baca dh rasa si minah ni GILA). 


dgn khemah yg smpai 10 khemah(2 pun nk tambah lg 4 khemah),ngan brg2 nk masak utk kenduri x disediakn dan mcm2 lg hal lah!!! yg bestnye lak segala rancangan ni atas rancangan si minah ni yg nk khwin without discussing anything with the father. ape la salah bapaknye tu smpai sanggup membelakangkn org yg akan mewaliknnye!!! semua rancangan ni hanya pakatan si ibu dan anak, si minah ni mmg kaki memerintah mak bapak dia supaya ikut ckp dia klu x ikut dgn senang hatinye dia memaki hamun mak bapak sendiri,yg parents ni ikut je la sbb takut anak kesayangan tu lari dari rumah. aku pun x sangka dia boleh buat mcm tu skali kt parents yg membesarkn dia. sanggup dia memalukan semua kaum keluarga dia!!


jdi hari yg sepatutnye bernikah terpaksa teruskan gak sebab dh jemput org kampung tp ye larr dgn nk cover malu giler babi!!! bila selesai sudah kenduri yg x serupa kenduri org mati bermulalah adegan yg x diingini bila si aunty2 minah ni mula x puas hati sbb sanggup memalukn family. ye larrr aunty2 dia nk ajak berbincang tp telah di back up oleh si ibu dit dot yg x jdik kahwin ni! setelah aunty2 nyer 'attack' si ibu(bukanlah adegan berkuntau sbb adegan tu sebentar saje lagi),bising2 skit nk tau ape tujuan sebenar si minah ni buat situation camni dgn tiba2nye si minah ni yg telah berkurung dalam bilik dri pg smpai ke ptg(dgn x mandi) mula mengamuk kt aunty2 nyer!!! 


oooppppsss,utk pengetahuan semua ni la adegan yg ditunggu2 oleh semua org tp aku la yg dpt exclusive nyer cover story.. ok teruskn citer, si minah ni mula la mengamuk kt aunty2 dia dan menyuruh aunty2 dia jgn masuk campur hal ni,cuma dia ngan ibunye sahaja yg berhak brcakap!! tp bila aunty2 dia mula mengamuk ngan sikap kurang ajar yg melampau-lampau tu,aunty2 dia mula la ringan tangan menampar pipi si minah ni(minah ni badan besar dan kulit mcm buaya so bila tampar dia rasa cam x sakit)!! si minah masih lg nk kata diri dia yg betul, si aunty2 mula la geram ngan perangai anak buahnye yg macam anak pistol(son of a gun,hehehe!!nina aku pinjam ayat ko ye) maka bermulalh adegan tendang-menendang dan tampar-menampar( aku masih lg ada dlm situation ni sbb aku tgh merekod perbincangan mereka,wuiiishhh keje giler ni mcm reporter lak) si minah ni mengamuk dan memaki hamun lagi kt aunty2 dia,suka ati tok nek jiran sebelah kampung sana,dia dgn sedap mulut panggil aunty2 dia BABI DAN P*K**AK.. bila ayat tu terkeluar je kt mulut dia,i feel like wuiiiishhhh sunnguh x ku sangka dia boleh cakap those words yg x sepatutnye dia cakap kt org2 yg telah membela dia sejak kecik lagi!!! masa ni everybody yg tgk scene ni mula menangis termasuk la aku yg sprti reporter x bertauliah ni... dh tu pulak dia boleh bgn gi dapur ambik penyapu nk perhambat aunty2 dia(nasib baik x amik pisau,klu x dh jdi citer FRONTPAGE lerrr: 8 terbunuh pengantin x jadik berkahwin mengamuk dan membunuh org di sekelilingnye) astaghfirullahhalazim,mengucap aku!!mintak simpang malaikat 44 jauhkn benda2 yg x elok berlaku kt family aku. 


lepas tu si minah ni menarik tangan ibunye yg takut2 nk marah anak kesayangan dia masuk ke dlm bilik dan bangg booommmm dia menghempas pintu yg dh nk roboh tu!! lg sekali mencabar kesabaran aunty2 dia,bila aunty dia yg sorang mula mengangkat kain dia dan bangggg lg sekali menendang pintu tu(x padan ngan pakai baju kebaya nk tendang pintu)!!so luar dalam la dok bantai pintu yg x bersalah tu..(kesian cik pintu x psl2 kena tendang )


setelah masih gak x dapat jawapan dri si minah kenapa dia sanggup memperbodohkn semua org dan memalukn keluarga sbb dia asyik fikir diri dia gak yg betul,maka semua org membuat kesimpulan dgn melabel si minah ni dh giler mental. sebab semuanye dirancang guna imaginasi dia(tp dh mcm gatal nk khwin sbb tau je la rupe x seberapa sapelah nk kt dia yg mcm monster tu)!! and finally kami semua memutuskn klau dia nk buat ape2 kenduri ke kami dh x mau datang lagi,cukup la kami ni muka dh tebal berpuluh inci(termasuk make up yg tebal) nk cover malu yg si minah ni lak dgn senang hatinye aje dok dalam bilik siap guling2 atas katil.. 


kesimpulan citer di atas ni suka ati korang la nk kesimpulan camner!!! to me,aku mmg rasa si minah dit dot ni dh gile,sakit mental dan sewaktu dgannye.. tp aku xrasa kesian langsung kat minah nisbb dia dh menyusahkn semua org!! 


dgn akhir kata....wasalam!!!!

Sunday, December 14, 2008

I am so so Happy!


Ok today was my final 10K of 2008 I have to say I went out with a bang!!!!!! Below I have listed my times from the last 3 races for those who don't want to bother with reading through them let me just say I ran 6.2 miles in 1:03.14 that would be 10:11 miles!!! YA FREAKING WHO for me!!!


Marine Corps 10k Oct 26th
Bib FName Age Sex ClockTime Pace
1751 STEPHANIE 36 F 01:06:53 10:46.2


Marine Corps Turkey Trot 10 K November 15th
Bib FName Age Sex ChipTime ClockTime Overall DivPl Divtotal
91 STEPHANIE 36 F 1:11:26 1:11:26 451 32 45

Jingle all the way 10K Dec 14th
Place Div/Tot Num Name Age Gun T Net T Pace 5k
1362 185/292 1870 Stephanie 36 65:39 63:14 10:11 33:18


So here I am with my feet up watching football about to take a nap, I think I have earned it !!!!!

Friday, December 12, 2008

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.cerita indah.

last few weeks.keluar makan2 dengan officemates di damansara.lebih tepat the curve, mutiara damasara.
wareong penyet.makan.makan.ambil gambar.
then jalan2 dalam curve.decor yang indah sempena christmas.

kawan-kawan.sahabat.teman.

apa yang indah tentang itu?
ketawa.senyuman.gurauan.
sejujurnya saya dah merasa segalanya mengenai persahabatan.
dari yang seindahnya indahnya hingga yang menghancur luluh kan hati saya.
pernah saja saya menangis semasa zaman belajar dulu gara-gara sikap seorang teman yang saya kirakan agak rapat hanya kerana dia tidak mahu makan semeja dengan saya dan teman lain di sebuah gerai (kerana mau makan di kedai lain).
dalam perjalanan pulang ke rumah yang hanya memerlukan saya berjalan kaki, salah seorang teman baik saya berbicara dengan sang bulan mengenai sikap sahabat saya tadi.terus saja saya menangis semahunya.menyesal tak sudah.selalu sangat nak menjaga hati orang lain... :(
tapi alhamdulillah dua teman baik saya selalu bersama2 saya.memujuk.memeluk.moga2 hingga ke nafas terakhir saya.

bagaimana saya mau bercerita ye?
saya berani mengkategorikan diri saya ini sebagai seorang yang SETIAKAWAN.
sehingga pada suatu masa, boyfriend saya mengamuk kerana saya meletakkan diri nya di nombor 3 selepas keluarga dan kawan2.
entah la...
saya berkawan sama seperti yang lain.
tapi saya jenis yang melekat dengan kawan2.
bosan pula kalau asyik bersama yang tersayang.
24 jam.
dulu di zaman belajar, kerap juga saya bertengkar dengan boyfriend kerana kawan2.
dia merasa kan saya tidak adil terhadap dirinya.
kerana saya melebihkan rakan2.

*tapi sekarang dia yang melebih2 kalau berkumpul bersama teman2 perempuan saya :) *

sekarang saya sudah bekerja.punyai kawan2 di tempat kerja.
masih gembira.
mereka gila.
lebih tepat, mereka sengal. :p
kerana apa ya?
mungkin kerana umur yang tidak jauh beza.
mungkin juga...
:)
*syukur*
sepanjang hari bersama mereka tidak pernah sekali pun saya tidak ketawa.
indah kan?
(katakan saja yang saya memang mudah ketawa! ;p)

saya berdoa semoga Tuhan terus merestui hubungan indah ini sampai saya mati.

to my dear b.f.f : 
*saya rindu kamu berdua... :)
kamu berdua cinta mati saya.


Some time for me


So yesterday I had things to do, a doctors appointment, Jackson's school Christmas play and ...... a trip to the spa!!!!! I have been collecting gif certificates all year and finally I took some time for myself to use them. I booked an 80 minute massage (deep tissue) and a 50 min facial. The facial was divine, however the massage was in a word Painful!!!! Yes painful, while it was happening I it felt ok, not horrible however by the time I woke up this morning I was so so sore. My back and neck are sore to the touch. If I didn't know better I would think I had bruises all over. I am going to assume that it is because I had a deep tissue massage because I would hate to think that I spent all those gift certificates for a terrible massage.

Sunday I am running in my final race of the year. It is my hope to beat my time of 1:06, the weather will hopefully cooperate as it doesn't look like it is going to rain and the temp is going to be about 45.

Have a great weekend and see you next week.

UPCOMING BIRTHDAY PARTY!!!

only 2 weeks left for me and my sister buat list utk birthday party my kids and my dearest daddy!! saje nk buat sekali terus senang x payah nk susah2 buat byk kali.  this time nk buat barbeque party utk FAMILY aje. ni pun birthday party just for my special person in my life,of course my ashraf yg nk masuk 2 years old and my lil baby sofia yg baru nk masuk 1 year old and last but not least my dearest daddy yg ke-7??? (alamak x ingat la pulak)

so tadi mmg asyik berdiscuss nk beli brg ape and segala preparation so that this party looks happening. lgpun ni untuk mengeratkn lg silaturahim. at the same time aku nk buat pulut kuning untuk sedekahkn kt masjid!! itu just niat aku sebab anak2 aku yg semakin membesar and journey diorang yg masih panjang aku bersyukur pd allah S.W.T sbb bg lg peluang untuk aku bersama2 ngan family aku.


pening kepala gak la sbb nk kena beli 2 present untuk anak2 aku!!!! and until now i still don't know what am i gonna give them as a present! nk bg toy dh berlambak...**SIGH**... so x tau la aku nk bagi ape utk anak2 aku ni!!alahai,botak & beruban lg la kepala laki aku.. hehehe..


oklah until here...chow...

APE AGAKNYE YEA????

almost 2 weeks hubby aku asyik dok cakap nk bg present kat aku but until now x dpt ape lg!! so this afternoon dia call tiba2 kata ari ahad ni aku akan dpt present from him...  ((sorry ye bahasa bercampur aduk lak))  but my sister tau present ape yg hubby nk bg tp my sis ada kata yg aku akan suka hadiah tu. APE AGAKNYE YE?? pening kepala aku mikirnye. 

so sepanjang ari ni aku still think...think..think...(cam cartoon my friend tigger & pooh). since last week hubby ckp psl present,ingatkn nk suruh aku balik wangsa since i'm lepaking at my sister's house for a week,tp bila balik sana dgn muka selamba je mcm xde apa2 pun hadiah nk bgi utk aku.. arrrgghhhhh!!!!


aku bengang sgt sebab aku still gak x dpt cari maxi dress yg aku nk sgt2! ada tu mmg la ada tp biasa arrr aku suka buat survey dulu mana yg elok,murah or kain yg cantik tu la yg aku beli.  nk beli online selalu sgt abis cpt so xpe la aku pegi la cari kt mana2 dulu. 




till here...chow...

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Cheating “What did you say?”


Ok I had a very strange conversation with a friend the other day. This friend and I talk about once a month and we are close we have know each other for a long time. However the conversation I had the other day blew me away. I actually had to stop and ponder both the friend’s situation as well as take a look at myself to see if I am just totally naive.

So during the course of the conversation the subject of affairs came up I think were talking about he latest celebrity scandal and I said I just don’t see why or even how you could have an affair (I was referencing people in everyday life not celebs) my comment was answered with “well I’ve had one” I was dumbfounded! I responded with “what did you say?” This is a person who I would have least expected to cheat. Of course the girl in me took over as I peppered the friend with questions, when, who, where, how long, is it still going on were the first questions out of my mouth.

The friend went on to try to explain why, lack of intimacy, family events (death, sickness etc.) and children. I was in such shock! While I have know that this friend has had their share of life events it never struck me to think it was effecting the entire relationship to the point that there had been no intimate contact in over a year!! I have never really known anyone who has, while married, cheated. I understand the idea that things get boring, or old hat and that people get into a rut but there is no way I could see me seeking other means with regard to a physical needs.

My friends went on to tell me the details of the affair which lasted all of a weekend since it was on a business trip. The spouse knows nothing of it and the friends has no plans to come clean and says no plans to stray again either. However my guess if you did it once and got away with it what would stop you from doing it again?

So when I mentioned this conversation to others I was shocked to find there are several in my large circle who have indeed had an affair, of course there were varying degrees of affairs. Some thought talking to someone via email was considered an affair while others were the Full Monty so to speak.

It made me realize that I am truly lucky that I have a loving husband and that we communicate! It appears to me the common theme in straying seems to be a lack of communication.

Monday, December 8, 2008

THE MITSUBISHI OUTLANDER- OUTSTANDING STUFF

THE MITSUBISHI OUTLANDER- OUTSTANDING STUFF







The Mitsubishi Outlander is a good-looking, fun-driving, flexible-seating, sports utility vehicle. The Outlander was introduced in the Japanese markets by The Mitsubishi in 2001 by the name AIRTRECK. In the U.S.A. it was introduced by the name The OUTLANDER in 2003.

DESIGN

































The Mitsubishi Outlander is Manufactured in the G.S. platform of LANCER EVOLUTION. Its brakes, suspension and aluminium roof (for a low centre of gravity) are all borrowed from the same. Compared to the other soft roaders in India, Outlander has more S.U.V look. 215 mm ground clearance and 215-70 R 16 tyres prove this. The interior of Outlander is black and the seats are very comfortable. The paddle shift gears are as large as those of conventional sports cars. The dials and controls are majestic. Seats split, tumble, slide, recline and hide themselves away in optimum fashion at the touch of a button. The cargo space is enormous and easy to load via a split tailgate. And there are some truly inspired touches like a controlled-temperature glove box, solar-trapping glass and an odor-eating roof! Of course there's also air conditioning, electric door mirrors and windows, cruise control, Bluetooth hands-free, 30-gigabyte hard drive satellite navigation and a 650w, 9-speaker, immerse-yourself-in-sound audio system.

DRIVING

















The outlander doesn’t disappoint those who expect thrill of driving and control. The 2.4L 4 cylinder petrol engine will give 167BHP and 226nm torque. Only automatic transmission fac ility is available in the Outlander. It has chassis designed for sporty handling. It takes just 11.45s to reach a speed of 100km. The triptronic mode makes driving funnier. Steering is comfortable.

TECH SPECIFICATIONS



ENGINE

2360CC, 4 cylinder in-line, Petrol

MAX POWER

167BHP @ 6000 rpm

MAX TORQUE

226Nm @ 4100 rpm

GEAR TRANSMISSION

6 speed automatic

SUSPENSION

Mac Pherson coil springs with stabilizer bar (rear). Multi Link coil spring with stabilizer bar.

BRAKES

Discs(Front & Rear)

TYRES

215/70 R16

LxWxH

4640x1800x1680(mm)

WHEEL BASE

2670mm

KERB WEIGHT

1615kg

TANK CAPACITY

60Litres

PRICE

Rs.21 Lakhs





A brief overview of the tech specifications of the outlander is given above. For more details click here



COST

The ex-showroom price of The Outlander is Rs.21 lakhs





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